"Young men such as yourselves ought not to have such things. You ought to be chasing girls and playing tennis..." Probably. She's good at making horrible situations in her mind.

"I'm still not convinced. Even though I've had plenty of it. It made me queasy for awhile at least..." She was just being petulant now because she could, though it's not meanly said.

"Dancing? I wasn't aware anyone here can dance?" At least not what she knew. "And I know there is not a chance I shall go riding like I do at home, not ever." Another thing she missed.